Friday, July 31, 2009

The Honeymoon in Iceland (July 2009)


A lot more photos

There is a very small window during which Iceland can be a wonderful place to visit. We tried to match that window precisely--the first two weeks of July (2009 instead of 2008 but whose counting) knowing that even those dates were no guarantee of smooth sailing. Plenty of years have seen raging wind, rain, and even snow, in late June, early July. And yet, by some miracle (with a little global warming thrown in) we were thrilled minute after minute, day after day, by an absolutely incredible, breathtaking 12 days of gorgeous clear skies and spring like temperatures.

And when I say sun, I mean 24 hours of sun. By about 10pm, the precious golden light savored by photographers world round begins to shine, and then from there until about 3am it's a sensuously slow sunset. Following that, is a more mysterious sunrise not too far from the spot that the sun began its descent. In between, there is no darkness. So for slow risers, or people who have a lot of driving to do in between one destination and the next, there is no pressure to beat nightfall. Plus, the habit of eating at 10:30 or 11pm New York time was easily transferable to the spot in front of our tent at the same hour Icelandic time. No lantern or headlamp necessary!

The perks of Iceland are many:

  • the vastness, but accessibility of the place (Iceland is the size of Kentucky)
  • the lack of people and development of any kind
  • the eternal sun
  • wild camping is an option and preferable
  • the 4-6" thick moss that covers much of the surface of the country
  • the availability of delicious fresh fish
  • the lack of rodents or bugs or any wild animals other than the elusive reindeer, and field mice
  • Icelanders love of wool and felt
  • the laid back enforcement of rules and lack of crime
  • the ease at which I was able to not only leave the doors of the car open, but happily walk away from the car with the keys in the ignition
  • and the diverse and epic landscape


We walked on glaciers, trekked through snow, biked over lava, soaked in natural hot springs, forded 25 rivers, lived outside for 8 days straight, got rescued by Iceland's own Emergency Rescue, drove 1750 kilometers in a Russian Lada Niva 4WD jeep, and remained in awe of what lay before our eyes every inch of the way.

It seemed like nirvana. But, it's important to remember that so much of the rest of the year finds Iceland undercover of snow and darkness. We appreciated our time there that much more realizing how fortunate we were to experience it in the most ideal of circumstances.

Icelanders are incredibly friendly. In a real, no-nonsense sort of way. It seemed like they appreciated that we took the time to visit their home. There are only 300,000 people living in Iceland, most of whom live in Reykjavik. Favorite facts include... the phone book is listed by first name. It is a patrimonial society so last names are one's father's name followed by either 'sson' or 'dotter' depending on one's current gender. They know their landscape like an old friend. There are no trees in Iceland because a series of volcanoes over the last millennium wiped them out. The country, before going bankrupt at least, had a relatively socialist based government. Once upon a recent time, there was 100% employment in Iceland! Architecture seems to follow from politics and so many of the buildings evoke Eastern Europe in their form follows function utilitarianism.

Because there are no trees, one is empowered from a navigational standpoint. Rather than feel lost in a forest that affords a myopic perspective, the openness of the landscape allows one to always take in the larger picture, the grand scheme, the whole scene. So, then the challenge becomes paying attention to the close-up and potentially overlooked. The views may easily distract one from the tiniest of wildflowers or the moss that manages to grow between the lava rocks, the striation of the ice underfoot or the morphing colors of the stone at the base of a mountain.

Driving the Lada Niva was fantastic because we felt like we could take on any road, no matter how un-road like it appeared. Marc theorized that the government didn't spend much time maintaining any road other than the main ring-road because it added to the visitors' sense of adventure. Well, it certainly added to ours. We felt like pioneers, Crocodile Dundee, and James Bond all wrapped into one. Marc excelled at the fording river task and claimed it was just like driving on the FDR drive when it periodically floods. Jill found many differences between the two experiences and held on for dear life and just kept counting.

We brought an ice cooler full of food for the trip which we supplemented along the way with the rare fresh vegetable and fresh fish from a harbor town. Most of Iceland's economy is based on fish and only 1% of the country is devoted to agricultural land so it doesn't take too much deducing to see that if you don't want fish, it's going to be an import and it's going to be expensive. We cooked great meals every night on our little camping stove and ate below a sun drenched sky. The water was phenomenal everywhere but tasted best straight from a newly rutted stream on the glacier! Water and wool probably make up the bulk of Iceland's non-fish exports.

Marc brought along a 'fresh' as well as a hard salami from the 2nd Avenue Deli. They served him relatively well, but got us pulled aside by customs when we tried to return home. The beagle smelled meat. Luckily, the label was still affixed to said salami, vouching for the fact that it was not smuggled in from Iceland.

As honeymoons go, it was pretty hard core and pretty spectacular.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

The Unpublished NYT Vows


Their second date was a Passover seder at the home of the president of the groom’s Upper East Side Orthodox synagogue and their third date was at the Whitney’s Gordon Matta Clark exhibit. Jill Slater, blogger, food activist and former city planner introduced Marc Schwartzberg, owner of Dallek—an office furniture and commercial interior design company—to controversial theater, underground performances, camping off-the-grid, sustainable food, and a lot of DIY; and Marc introduced Jill to extravagant weddings and bar mitzvahs, the perks of the Upper East Side, the appeal of religious observance, and his openmindedness.

Marc and Jill met at a party on the Upper East Side at the end of March 2007—a neighborhood in which Jill rarely found herself and where Marc has spent most of his adult life. Prior to their first date, Jill, single and Jewish with no children, learned that Marc had four children and was orthodox—two things Marc had not mentioned during their short chat at the party. Jill worked to absorb the newly learned facts such that when Marc mentioned them on their first date, Jill could nod nonchalantly.

By date number 18, Jill decided to stop counting and was officially charmed. She proposed marriage in July—four months into their relationship—and while Marc was shocked at the reversal of roles but flattered beyond words, he asked whether he had to answer right away. Jill said “no.” Marc then proposed seven months later, on the evening of February 14th, not because of the romantic alignment, but rather that Jill was leaving for a trip to San Francisco the next morning.

The couple’s wedding, like their living situation (shared uptown and downtown residences), is bifurcated. Part I was a short, religious Jewish ceremony strictly limited to the tenets required under Jewish law to create a union—in keeping with the groom’s comfort level. It took place in Central Park’s Hernshead. Following the ceremony, the intimate wedding party strolled en masse, through the park, to the couple’s uptown residence for a meal prepared by the bride. Part II continues where Part I left off and includes a more interpretive set of rituals associated with a Jewish wedding—in keeping with the bride’s comfort level. It unfolds at a raw space in the Gowanus section of Brooklyn, accommodating hundreds. The couple explained that they’d rather invite all of their loved ones and serve less food than exclude friends for the sake of a second course. Part I and II offered an all kosher, all organic menu—satisfying both the bride and the groom’s dietary standards.

The bride handmade all the invitations, cooked all the food, knit her veil, made the couple’s chuppah, and designed and sewed her formal wedding dress over a couple of months of late nights.

The night of the celebration offers a lineup of great musicians (friends of the couple) as well as art projections, and light installations by local artists. The industrial space is softened by natural elements such as a bed of moss covering the buffet table.

The evening bridges generations and neighborhoods, cultures and political views—where a punk klezmer band can rally the mass to dance 'til their pants fall off, and hora 'til they drop.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

The big event. October 25th, 2008


RSVP
HERE
or send a note to jslater [[AT]] wesleyan [[DOT]] edu
or, if you prefer, call 415.254.5455

(a little odd fact: invitation is printed on paper made out of stone, not trees!?)

The Schedule

Quick Run down of October 25th

9ish
Cocktails and General Assemblage
Brown Rice Family will play a set of Reggae covers

9:45ish
Ceremony and Ritual

10:30ish
Celebration and Libation
Dancing, performers, art, light refreshments, and drink.
Golem, a glorious punk klezmer band will play 2 sets.

12:30ish
Wolff will play a set.

1am
Joro Boro, Global Dance Music DJ will make sure the dancing goes well into the night.

Location and Directions

Where is it? and How do I get there?

The Old American Can Factory
232 Third Street (corner of 3rd Avenue) BROOKLYN

Once you arrive at the corner of 3rd Street and Third Avenue, you'll see a group of large brick buildings. This is the Old American Factory. There should be plenty of street parking if you are traveling by car. Look for a driveway into the interior courtyard and walk in.

By Subway:

F/G to CARROLL ST stop. Walk East down Third St over Gowanus Canal to Third Av (5 minute walk)

F/M/R to NINTH ST-FOURTH AVE stop. Walk North on Fourth Avenue. Make a left on Third Street to Third Av (5 minute walk)

By Car:

• From Manhattan Bridge: Proceed straight on to Flatbush Ave. Right on Third Avenue (just after Fulton-Nevins Sts) to Third Street. (5-10 minute drive)

• From Brooklyn Bridge: Proceed straight on to Adams Street Left on Atlantic Avenue. Right on Third Avenue to Third Street. (5-10 minute drive)

• From Battery Tunnel (Right lane toll booth): Take first exit (just after toll) on to Hamilton Avenue. Left on Smith Street. Right on Third Street to Third Avenue. (3-5 minute drive)

• From BQE (278) West: Exit on Tillary Street. Left on Flatbush Avenue. Right on Third Avenue to Third Street. (5-10 minute drive)

• From Gowanus Expwy (278) East: Exit at 39th Street. First left on Fourth Avenue. Left on Third Street to Third Avenue. (5-10 minute drive)

• From Prospect Expwy (27) North: Exit at Fourth Ave. Right on Fourth Ave. Left on Third Street to Third Avenue (3-5 minute drive)




CAR SERVICES for getting home:
Family Car Service: (718) 596-0664
Park Slope Car Service: (718) 788-5106

Saturday, September 13, 2008

The Dress Code

To dress for this event is to look fabulous--however you feel that to be best achieved.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

The Small Wedding in the Park



On June 15th, Marc and Jill had a small wedding ceremony at Hernshead in Central Park, New York City.
To see some documentation, click here.

It was a glorious day.